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Central...I'm wondering why it seems that you are trying to discount adoptee searches and reunions...? I'm wondering if it may have to do with you trying to find reinforcement that your adopted son won't search for his bfather when he gets older... and if only 2-4% actually DO...then you can probably breathe a sigh of relief. If you want to take the statistic from my adoptive family... 100% of the adopted children searched for and reunited with birthmoms and birthfamilies. Perhaps your son growing up with his biological mother will take some of the wondering and longing away... and he may never want to search for his birthfather...especially with the information that it seems you will be poised to give him... BUT...don't forget that just because his bfather is who he is with the major issues in his life..there are more family members out there...that may be a wonderful addition to his life at some point in time. He may not feel that these relatives have any place in his life... BUT.. he may...and that is for him to figure out as he gets older...
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Reunited Adoptee
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