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My DS recently reunited with his bmom and although the issue wasn't retardation, she has severe mental illness that requires heavy medication and leaves her in a very sad state, physically and mentally, needing constant medical and psychiatric care. I know that DS is still a bit bowled over by actually seeing her and the state she's in and figuring out how to move forward in the situation.

At this point, his stated intention, if it helps anyone, is to make sure that she always knows that he's okay and what's generally going on his life and to always be respectful, polite and gentlemanly in any contact with her, and to just take each day, each contact, and each issue as it comes. Rather than trying to "take on" an entire situation, he just deals with what comes, as it comes