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Princess:
I'm sooo sorry you've been through the saddness you've experienced in your life. (((HUGS))))
I want to stress something here though.......don't feel badly because you wanted (or still want) a baby. There's nothing wrong with this---in fact, I'll go so far as to say that you really shouldn't be adopting an older child (even a toddler) if you really, in your heart, want to have the 'firsts' with a baby.
And, who wouldn't want to have the firsts with their baby????? For most, this is pretty normal and you have every right to want this!!!!!! ((More hugs)))
I would continue to encourage you to pursue baby adoption. If this is in your heart, IMO, it's bound to cause, at least some disappointment if you were to choose to adopt any child that's older, KWIM?
If you're hesitant to continue a search for baby adoption....please reconsider. Don't give up and don't settle for anything else but what's in your heart! There are lots of stories of people who thought they'd not ever be able to adopt, or realize their dreams of more children, but one day had their baby in their arms!!!
My best to you......
Sincerely,
Linny
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