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all my thoughts
how old are you so empty.Iam a birthmum,had my baby in 1979 and 10 years in reunion. I dont want to give you advice,more to provide my thoughts so you can make an informed choice for the future. Have you signed the papers yet. Can you go get her. is it too late for all this. what suport is there from ur family.sorry so many questions but after 28 years of greiving for my daughter I wouldnot advise adoption unless every avenue has been explored. This is a little baby,who will love you unconditionally, no matter how much money you have. I married and three more children after my little girl was relinquished...supposedly the right thing to do. Life has still been tricky, financially hard and i so often think how I could have coped bringing up my daughter. Not saying I dont love the family i have but i grieve still, even after reunion. ts left a huge dent in my psyche..deppression included.if you can answer some of my questions i can be more informed as to what the hurdles are for. You have come to the right place..sum very amazing people out here totally knowing what you are going thru.looking forward to your reply. susie
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