[Matushka]

Tiredmom77,
I'm exhausted just reading your post. It is so unfortunate that you had such a bad experience with the early intervention program. From what you are describing, it sounds as though your daughter may very well have sensory processing issues. I like teachbear's suggestions for highly placed locks on the exterior and bathroom doors. If you have a video camera I suggest that you videotape some of the things you are describing so that when you are able to see a professional again, you'll have documentation since she doesn't show these signs all the time. I also highly recommend the book "The Out of Sync Child" which you should be able to find through your local library if you are not sure you want to buy it. There is a companion book "The Out of Sync Child has Fun" which is also very helpful for children with sensory issues. I hope you find the answers you are looking for.