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I know I’m just full of questions…
If 16 weeks is too soon, when is a good time that will still allow my 6-year-old to feel comfortable with them? I mean…I need to be comfortable with them too but I think it will take her longer and she’ll be full of questions. I was actually hoping to look for an independent match but when will agencies usually match? When is it “normal” to match?
Is the naming issue something we can agree on before we (me and potential a-parents) make the match? i.e. do you think there are a-parents out there who would agree to keep some part of the name without knowing for sure what that name will be other than that it will be special to me in some way? I understand that not all a-parents will agree to this for reasons of their own. I don’t’ have o understand them…but I can’t imagine carrying a baby and either not calling them anything or calling the baby something and then needing to call him/her something else when the a-parents name him/her. This adoption thing is complicated.
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