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Thanks for the reply, Lynn. Please feel free to drop me a private message here or on My Space anytime.
I figured she loved you all along . . . i think it's hard for adoptive parents to realize that the love is still there even when it doesn't feel like it is. I feel the same way with my step-daughter. I never had that sense of entitlement to her love and never really believed it was true. (she is my daughter's b-mom). Two years ago she sent us a letter saying she wanted nothing to do with her dad and I. It was pretty devastating. We still have no contact . . . .we know how it feels and it stinks. My husband is her bio dad but she grew up with divided loyalties and was never given permission to "love" both families (her parents divorced when she was 2). I'm hoping by the time she is 30 she will figure out that we love her and that she is welcome back into our daughter's life.
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