[thanksgivingmom]

Thanks for the link Amy.

I had just turned 24 when I used Safe Surrender, so you're right, the age doesn't change things in my opinion.

Interestingly, the SW was going to mail me something to my work from DD's amom, and I was giving her the address and nearly gave her my last name. She stopped me and said "NO!" I said okay and she continued, telling me that if I gave my name they would have to do a full investigation and that it would postpone the finalization proceedings and I would be waiving my anonymity. And this is in a state that HAS Safe Haven!

It even made it sound like I would have to be "reported." Scary stuff.