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keds
I'm sorry for you and your husband and you are right - he is missing out - oh if only he realised that. I presume this is the only son? Men are such strange creatures sometimes. Most of the time they don't want to share and don't like change. Maybe he thinks he will have to share you and the family dynamics will change (of course they will silly man!!)
My daughter and I are flying to see my son on the 17th of next month. 4 days to fit in soooo much. Our visits are few and far between - like every six months but we can manage to fit a lot into that time. It's the week before his birthday so we will have early celebrations.
I too used to find the leaving very hard. Once there is some trust that the reunion will continue it certainly is easier.
Keep at it - you are doing great.
Ann
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