[shnoogiepoo]

I guess I am asking the same question or a similar question as Ruth. We are a great couple that have not had any children yet. I know there are people out there with the 30+K to adopt, but we are not them. I am very frustrated because we want to be able to give our love to a baby so very much, but It seems so hard to tactfully find someone to build that relationship with to say please trust me to raise your child and guide them into being everything you ever dreamed for them. We've met a couple birthmoms that care nothing about themselves much less thier unborn child. While we are not against having a child that has had a rough start like that, we'd very much like to find someone who needs help, just like we do. I want to find someone who's not in it to get as much out of it as the law allows, or doesn't allow. I want someone who wants the world for thier child and will be an active participant in helping us fulfil ours and thier dreams.