[nickchris]

Obligated? I do not get that statement, so because folks like me adopt an aa child. A child who is black like dh and I, it is out of obligation? LOL that is a new one. I must be getting old. :-) With all of the races we have as friends, and are comfortable around, with all of the racial combos in my family, it still does not change what is.
Guess all the other races who adopt their own race are feeling obligated as well. I do not know what this conversation is really about, other than some are trying to prove that love conquers all, but it still does not change that aa children are at the bottom of the desired list.