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Originally Posted by almostthere
it is important to see that our children get taken care of but i was not going to say ONLY black even though thats that my husband said i believe God will give me the right child and he did our little guy is perfect in every way hes got beautiful brown skin and the most amazing eyes and that fact that hes black is not as important as the fact that he is such a great guy  , every one is different our sw called yesterday saying they had an AA girl 18months that was healthy and perfect but no one wanted her, she had been in a match with a couple who one was black and the other white and they decided they didnt want her because what they truly wanted was a mixed baby (WHY PEOPLE ARENT HONEST IN THE FIRST PLACE) but i have to think that there is a family that will love her as much as we love our little guy i would hate for her to go to some one who is black just because they feel obligated to do so |
I'll take her...I would LOVE to have a girl. Black, white, hispanic etc...I don't care, I just want a girl...lol
When I signed up for fostering/adopting I told them I would only take girls and I was very adamant about it.
BUT I ended up getting blessed with 4 sons
( 2 foster only) and (2 I will be adopting VERY SOON) and although I still dream of having my little girl(s), I really believe that God made sure he gave me the right children and if I had stuck to my guns and kept saying no boys, I wouldn't have my precious (hard head) little boys that I wouldn't trade for anything in the world.
However, I'm still hoping to get at least one girl
..Please God! (lol)