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Originally Posted by MistyAnn22
Its been two years now and I still feel cheated. I got to hug her and tell her that I love her. I thank God for those moments but its still so hard not to be angry.
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Dear MistyAnn22,
I can relate to how you feel cheated and angry. The finality of losing a family member hurts so much. All the blatherings from others about 'oh well, at least you had....", "you're lucky that....", just doesn't compensate for the profoundly huge loss.
I have learned that it's OK to let my all feelings run their course, however long that may be, just that it's important to find a safe place to let them out. A part of me wishes that I was somehow 'over it', but another part of me has learned that sometimes healing has its own rhythm.
Grieve in your own way, heal at your own pace. I am thinking of you. Thank-you for sharing.
Yours,
Ripples
