I'm going crazy here. My ex-husband is sporaticly in the picture and never pays child support. I opened a case with child support enforcement and he's been to jail for non-payment already. I refuse to drop the child support enforcment order and it makes him very very mad. So i told him since his issues were all about money and not the welfare of the kids then he could just sign adoption papers and he wouldn't have to worry about child support anymore. Where i messed up was when i told him he could then go on with his life with his new family and it would be like he never had to two kids. Well obviously he wouldn't go for it then. So is there anything i can do? My husband has taken care my my kids since they were 18 months old. He wants to adopt them very much. But im afraid that dream will not come true. Can anyone help??