[taramayrn]

Honestly that's something I have done. I don't tell everyone in my life about my son and sometimes I will say that I have a child and when someone pushes me further about it, I have said, oh yeah he's at home. I refuse to lie about my son, however, not everyone is worthy to hear my story and treat it with respect. People who are close to me in my life and who I can trust know the story.

So please don't judge her on that, she's doing something pretty normal.

Sounds like some boundaries need to be set.