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You obviously set no boundaries from the beginning and now it is a problem. It sounds like birthmom is open and honest with you, a good thing, did you ask her why she lied to her co-workers about the babies whereabouts?
Sounds like she could use someone to talk to,did she recieve post-adoption counseling? I would begin by setting some boundaries, ie....when, where, how often.
Please stick to your agreement with her if at all possible, as long as she doesn't become a threat to your family it is important for you to keep your word.
Best of luck to you!
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"I have learned that people won't remember what you said to them, they won't remember what you did to them, but they will always remember how you made them feel"
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