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Older Kids Rock
My daughter was adopted at 13 years old, in 2004. She is now a bright, funny, sweet 16 year old. We have had issues, but no worse than issues faced by my friends who have bio kids the same age.
I just returned from Kaz with a 10 year old boy. He is doing great. He is so loving and sweet, and funny. He adores his big sister. We have a few minor issues, but he is overall a real joy.
Having said that, I know of situations where older kids have lots of issues.
The key is to educate yourself - talk to other families, read blogs, check out websites, etc. Be prepared. I think hosting is a great thing, as long as the children are available to adopt, and you are prepared that it might not work out.
I love babies, but I am so glad my children are older, since I am single. I can talk to my kids - even though I had to learn some Russian to do it. LOL
Good luck!
Dee
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