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I agree. He sounds like a normal 2-3 year old that is dealing with a lot of change and unsure how to express this. My daughter (who has been with me since birth) is exhibiting some of these behaviors as well - hitting and throwing mainly. She has thrown things when she is angry since she first began to walk. I have no idea where she learned it since I'm not a thrower but some days we spend A LOT of time in time out or time in. I like 1 2 3 magic although it takes a lot of consistency and for you as the parent to stay on the ball even in public places.
Also, I would try to avoid comparing him to your other children; not because he is a foster child but because he is a different child. My children all have very different personalities and the techniques that work for one don't always work for the other. I have found myself going to compare them - M always goes to bed so easily why can't L - and then I stop myself because I don't want that to translate to my children and affect their self image.
Tina
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