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ticchick
She said since I did not regularly go to a doctor I could get arrested for a form of child abuse/neglection.
Later on I looked it up online and I could only find laws stating if the mother was on drugs she could get arrested right there in the hospital after giving birth, and I was NOT on drugs.
That nurse has emotionally ruined me for life with that experience.
My mothers sister got pregnant at 17 or 18 and since then my mother has not spoken to her more than a handful of times, and only then is because she had too. My aunts unmarried/had no boyfriend 21 year old daughter got pregnant right before I did and I remember my mom saying, "following suit like her mother bringing another illigitimate child into this world" That is what drove my fear of not telling her and my father, i love him but he lets me mom walk all over him and whatever she says goes.
thanksgivingmom -
I am STILL getting stuff in the mail. One for her one year check up..and the hospital KNEW/KNOWS she was adopted..sooo yeah.
I also got a million phone calls about paying/insurance/if I wanted to invest in baby insurance.
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