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Originally Posted By anotherMarylandfamily

When I was typing my other response, I couldn't remember the term (brain freeze as my boys would say) and with this board at such a high posting #, it wasn't worth backing out to get it.

On the FACES sites you will note at the lower left hand corner three entries - Transportation, Subsidy and Purchase of Service - the one to watch for is Purchase of Service which includes reimbursement of your homestudy costs, post-placement supervision fees, legal costs to finalize, etc. Most states will pay something - those that state not sure or negotiable will determine what they'll pay by many factors (how much they wish to place the child with you, your financial ability, etc.). All children should be eligible for a subsidy - most of these kids need some medical attention - dental, counseling, etc. and that doesn't come cheap and no worker will disrespect or get angry with your asking what they will provide so don't be hesitant to ask ... if you find a child that matches perfectly and financial assistance is minimal - you have to decide what you can and cannot accept. Obviously a child with great physical disabilities you would want more for.

New York is known for being good to work with but are also known for wishing to state in-state if at all possible and for pulling the plug on a placement in process if a resource in-state becomes available ... so tread lightly and make sure the worker knows you cannot be yanked around. They are known for slow responses so be prepared for that too.

Hope this helps - keep the questions coming ... know when we first started out I would ask a question, get an answer and find I had two more ... the more you ask the more you learn and the more information you have the better advocate you can be for both your family and any placement in your future.