From the cara web site:
For a young child, the wife must be under forty (40) years of age, the husband must be under forty-five (45) years of age or the combined total years of age should be under ninety (90) years.
You can check it out at:
http://www.adoptacarakid.org/adoption/foreign/#ind
This was a huge relief for us as dh is 39 and I'm 38. Hope this helps.
