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I'd say give it a chance.
Regardless if you're bringing home a newborn or a little bit older child, your first child will be having some issues.
Attachment can be a bit challenging, it's a good thing to keep it in mind (reading suggestion: Weaver's Craft - Toddler Adoption). Learn about bonding/attachment games and exercises you can do.
Give lots of skin-contact, hugging, eye-contact.
Most of all, trust your instincts and follow your heart.
All the best!
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