[wife2grumpy]

Thank you for your replies they mean a lot to me. Hubby and I just got in this huge argument about the new baby. I had gotten a new car seat for my brother, and he asked where it came from. I told him I got it for T. I talked to my brother and told him I had toddler seats for the older kids and the infant seat. I told hubby T was going to take them and he got all bent out of shape. He was telling me he could have the old one bla bla bla, and put the new one up for when "we" get the new baby. I promptly said "we" are not taking her. He said how the hell do you know that? Guess he missed the entire conversation we had last Wed, when I told him, I did not want this child, or what comes with her, being my niece and sisters attitude and directions on what "I" need to do. Then he said that we are family placement so it doesn't matter that they share a room, the prosecuting atty cannot make that call on the house being too small, that is up to cps. (at the first tpr that was postponed, the prosecuting atty said my house was to small for another child. I do not have to take both to keep J. His parents right was tpr'ed already, so it is a different case, and they also have moved to a different county now.
I am on the verge of tears over this. I know it is best for me, emotionally and physically not to take a new baby on. geesh I so need a vacation........
thanks for letting me cry on your shoulders... My husband just has no clue how I feel.