My partner and i have a very stable lifestyle; no drugs dont drink and just mostly stay home and spend time with our kids - 19, 17, 15, 10 we very much want to adopt a child. Not only do we not where to start (we are in alberta, canada) but i would like to hear some birth mothers views on what they look(ed) for in their adoptive parents and if you think the fact that we are a same sex (lesbian) couple if we would have been an automatic write off in your decision making ...no offense will be taken please speak the truth.

thank you