|
I agree with lonni.
My heart goes out to you, for your heartache and your desire to love him. I can't offer much in the way of advice, but wanted to give you a (((HUG))).
He is a grown man, and must make his own choices. His choices and inability to handle this relationship well do NOT make you a failure. A counselor might be able to help you with your own emotions and issues, and give advice on appropriate boundaries and how to deal with him in healthy ways.
We've all made mistakes, and we all have issues and challenges to deal with, - some of us more than others. But it is obvious that you love him and want this to work. Good luck, and know that you are not a faliure. Do what you need to do to take care of youself. You aren't much good to him anyway, until you are okay yourself.
-Juliana
|