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I understand how you feel in away cause my mom left when I was 4 and didn't come back till I was 16. At which time I was pregnant. I was convienced that adoption was the right thing to do to give her two parents that could do and give her the best life possible. I was told I could never be a mother to her cause I was a child my self and I couldn't even take care of myself. I was made to feel like I was being selfish for wanting to keep my baby. So being 16 and very easily influinced I give her up for adoption when she was only 3 days old and from the time they took her from my arms I never ever got over the regret of not just taking off with her and raising her my self it will be 26 years since I have seen her, even though in april we were reunited, we are still on the rollercoaster of reunion. She want talk to me or even actknowledge me by my name. This cuts to the bone and like all mothers weather Bmom or amom we just want to be loved by the children we thought we were giving a better life i sure hope you will put your self in her place and try to give her a break remember you were her age one time to.
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