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I call my bmom by her first name. My extended bfamily has never pushed me into calling her mom. Infact they call her by her first name as well when talking to me about her. They also refer to my aparents as my mom and dad. It helps with a lot of confusion. I was worried about this also when I was first reunited, I didn't want my bmom to feel that I was being disrespectful. But she eventually talked to me about it and told me that she understood if I didn't call her mom, that took a huge load off my shoulders.
~Erika
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