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We have been where you are. We had a 10 yr. boy, 11 yr. girl and 13 yr. girl. The older was much larger than the younger two. before we got them she had knocked teeth out of kids and broken ones ankle. She did not want to be adopted, the younger two did. We had them for 16 months and she insisted she did not want to be adopted. We said we would adopt the younger two and be her legal guardian, but since she did not want to be adopted, we would not force her. She was violent with the other two, was self abusing by slashing her hands. Her doctor warned us and did not want to see us keep her. On Christmas she had told us it was the best Christmas ever. That night she slashed her hands and had been laying on the 4wheeler. I know now that she was huffing gas. Dr. wanted her admitted, but the agency would not allow it. They also would not allow me to get her evaluated. They did move them to another home. I know how you feel and have no words of advice since it sounds like you are dealing with the same type of agency we had. The best interest of the children is not being served.
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