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Do what you think is best for your Family. I know a couple who adopted a 15 month old, and their oldest adopted child was a little over 2 at the time. The boy did display jealous when his sister first came to live with him but that likely would have been the case had she been an infant. The girl had been with her foster family since she was 4months old, so they tried to make it as easy on her as possible and still see her former foster family. In this girls situation it seems she’s been bouncing from foster home to foster home so she may or may not have attachment issues, if she does there are way to make the transition smooth.
Who knows your daughter might even thank you later on if you adopted her bio sister. Of course I don’t think biosibs need to be together anymore then biokids being raised by bioparents. Though if you daughter ever has issues being adopted having a biosib with her could help, then again I don’t know what sort of adoption you went with on your daughter (open, closed or semi open)
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