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It still feels strange to me that I am actually able to post on a question like this and have MY answer to the question, rather than what I THOUGHT I might do. I am new to reunion, and it's been quite an adjustment. I call my bmom by her first name. Actually when I am talking about her to most people I call her My {insert first name here...lol}. As a matter-of-fact, I have never actually called her by any name or title to her face. hmmmm, guess I just avoid that.
I am on the same mindset as a few of the others, My MOM is my MOM. Personally, my bmom will NEVER be my mom....but I have my reasons for that. I think it is all a personal choice, and either way is fine. We have been told how to feel, what to think for long enough as adoptees, so I think we need to do what is comfortable for both us and our found family.
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"Treat people as if they were what they ought to be and you help them to become what they are capable of being."
-Goethe
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 Nobody puts Baby in a corner!
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