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Gwen,
We wanted an open adoption as well. We have not heard from the bparents since TPR was signed. We did leave them by saying you have all our information so if you change your minds please contact us.
Maybe as you send pictures and jot down a few things your baby is doing the bmom will open her heart to having so contact. I wouldn't push the subject but make it clear that you are willing to accept the bmom as part of your lives if she so chooses to have you.
It wasn't a "deal" breaker for us not to have contact but it would have been a huge bonus.
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