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Ellie-
You didn't get an attorney too late. It sounds like you got one just in time! And take heart in the encouragement you receive here. We are all rooting for you.
As for the termination. It's hard to say. I didn't anticipate this. We lost our niece once. We had to hand her back to her meth addict mother who tried to kill her first child. So, there's that. When a child comes to your home, they bring their hurt and pain with them. And you see it, and you take it on. And then I guess, it's just that this has been a long struggle. I've gotten use to a certain amount of drama and crisis from dealing with the bio mom. I've found on this site that what I'm feeling is pretty common, which helps to know. But I think that after three and a half years, and watching my niece pay the price of it, I've learned how brutal the system can be. It doesn't occur to you when you start something like this how it can be. I always assumed that we would only encounter support from people who were concerned about children. But, it turns out, there are some people who just have their own agendas, and kids aren't on them. There are wonderful and helpful angels out there too, who will push you along and make things happen, but they are up against a hard system too.
I'm glad to hear you have a lawyer. You might need your lawyer again later (though I hope not) and it will be good to already have someone you trust on your side who will fight for your family.
I am anxious to hear what happens.
Amy
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