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Dear Kaden's Mom
I'm ecstatic that things have turned out so good for all of you.
I adopted my daughter out at birth in a private adoption. Open adoptions were not heard about, but we were supposed to have a semi-open adoption. I was told we would correspond. I was also told that they would tell her she was adopted right from the beginning. They would have told me anything to adopt her. I lived with them for a month before she was born.
It's a complicated story, and I'll spare the details, but I changed my mind about adopting her out after I had her. I was forced to do it by my oldest daughter's father.
The day I gave birth to her, my older daughter, her father, and I left for another state. I wrote to the aparents and they answered the first 2 letters that I wrote. In the 3rd letter, I asked questions about her, and asked for a picture of her. They sent me a letter telling me that they were breaking contact with me. They even moved out of the state they were in so I wouldn't know where she was.
Anyway, as I started out to say, I pray that the aparents of your/their child don't do that to you. You are so very blessed to be able to have contact with your child.
May God bless you all.
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