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For me, really, nothing that D (or J) could do would make it "better." Personally that's because my feelings and emotions regarding the holiday are not their fault or responsibility, ya know? That's not to say that their cards/presents aren't welcomed: they are! But the day itself is just hard in its own uniquely difficult way, no matter who tries to make it "good," if that makes ANY sense.
(I mean, normally my Husband can make all of my cares disappear but... even on Mother's Day he finds himself unable to "fix it.")
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Jenna
Mom to two boys: Nick, 3 & Parker, 1
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