[sweetnoodle]

Crystal,
Please do not feel guilty about wanting to pull back. Your bmom has issues she still hasn't dealt with. It's not for your better health to get sucked back in to an unhealthy relationship. Do not feel guilty at all. You set the parameters, and it really will be better for you and for her overall. I am a reunited adoptee. Bless you. I'm so sorry for what you went through.