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First of all, congratulations on being matched! Since it's so early in the pregnancy, maybe you could make some kind of arrangement about how often the two of you will see each other during the pregnancy. Say, maybe get together once a week? Whatever arrangements you make for after the baby is born, be sure you both agree to it before the baby is born. If you are comfortable with face to face visits after placement, you might want to ask her to see how she feels. Each Birthmother is different. Some would love to have continued contact with the baby, others would find it too difficult and some would be comfortable just with letters and pictures. JJ
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