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Old 05-06-2007, 11:30 PM
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I do not feel it is appropriate to send the photos to the best friend. Maybe tell her that, because of your agreement with C's b-mom, that you have reconsidered and feel that you're not comfortable sharing photos without b-mom's permission. You could let the best friend know that you would welcome contact from b-mom, if she wants to okay the photo-sharing.

If I was a b-mom and had asserted my desire for a closed adoption, I would be very hurt to learn that my child's a-mom had been in touch with my very best friend and had shared photos.

Just my opinion... Janet
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