[mandht]

Gracetoyou... interesting question. Best friend stated she never placed the initial call since she was at work. We discussed whether or not Connor birthmom placed the call. I reminded best friend I told birthmom I would keep the toll free number for as long as possible _ when I think back I mentioned that we pray for her every day, I think of her every day but did not specifically ask her to have birthmom call me. I didn't do so on purpose because I want to respect her wishes and do not want to push myself on her.

Now I am perplexed. Both of you agree with my husband, but I did give her my word I would send something. I did explain to her that birthmom did not want any contact. She asked for a picture and said it would be for her. How about just one recent picture vs. 20 or so covering the past two years.

Regardless of who made the call, best friend requested the pictures. I will also let you know we spent many hours at best friends house before Connor was born and after, sharing both laughter and tears. Best friend was / is like a mom to her.


MandHT