...to have your first mom tell the story from beginning to end, for everybody. That sure makes sense, and allows everyone to get their questions answered. Maybe a round or two of joint counseling with you and your first mom might be beneficial.
There is only a 3 and 6 year difference between my bson and my other children I raised, who also knew about bson. So, my personal experience doesn't include this particular issue.
I understand that there are some good children's books available that discuss adoption, although I'm not personally familiar with them. Would your first mom object to your reading these books with your sibs? I still like the idea of your mom gathering everyone together for a story time...
Peace,
Susan
