[jennmomtothree]

Oh, DT, I wish I had some advice for you. But I don't.

It's hard to know what might be going on behind the scenes. Maybe their relationship is still sound and they are considering raising the child together. And if that happened, that would be so very sad for you. But various members of this group have experienced this, and we'll help you get through.

But, maybe BF has spoken with birthmom, but their relationship isn't on such good terms...so birthmom promised that she'd go along with what he wanted (I have no idea what their relationship is like - could be a result of fear, who knows?), with no intent to send in papers to that effect. In that case, it'd be quite possible that this child could still be yours, even if there might be more legal work involved...

Please do keep us updated. I wish all the best for you...and that if the unfortunate should happen, I'll do all I can to support you, and I know that others here will, too.