[Shoshana]

I know. It's really hard to buy those first gifts and to pick out the first cards. I spent hours agonizing over the choice! I knew my first mom had a cat so I selected a small pewter frame with a cat on it and inserted a picture of me -- she still has it on her dresser! Really, even if the gift isn't something that your daughter would have chosen for herself, the fact that you chose it is what's important.