[katlyn]

Here it is again....I found my bdaughter a year ago TODAY!!! LOL...that's not the question, her birthday is coming up and I have been messaging back and forth with her for just a couple of months now. We have not discussed her placement and she has yet to ask me any questions...I'm just waiting for her to decide when she is ready. Anyhow, back to my question, I bought her a card and was wondering if I should or shouldn't send her a little something to go with it. I know that she is seriously into all anime and manga art and movies, and is an avid collector. I also saw her post that she has a lot of chokers(or likes them or something...?). I do have a smidgen of artistic ability, should I draw her a picture, that would be unique and one of a kind or do I try to guess and purchase some anime type artwork or movie or choker or what do you suggest? Nothing at all, just a card and a small note? Ugh, I'm totally confused. We don't email, we message via Facebook.com and she added me as a friend...so I have not had the joy of hearing her voice or seeing her beautiful smile close up yet. All I have is in black and white via the computer....any suggestions are welcome...THANK YOU!