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Originally Posted by PiperH
It has put rather a damper on what would be an exciting time - our LID.
We are trying to cope with this latest information, but it's been hard. I don't know what is worse - being so close, with late October and November and December referrals, but essentially just as well as far away as we are without them, or being as far away as we are and looking at years.
We have waited so long and this always felt so right, but lately it's hard to stay optimistic.
Kevin's doing that better than me, however, and my turn will come to shore him up. I can't imagine doing this alone like I know some are still trying to do before May.
Here's hoping this is rock bottom. I'm ready for a climb.
Violet
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Violet~
I had the SAME experience last March, the day we were LID they only referred 3 days of LID's (5 days total, two were weekend days). I remember thinking how excited and sad I was at the same time...Now, here I sit a year later, still with about a year to go...seeing your post and feeling the same. But, I refused to believe that rate would last forever and it didn't and I don't think 2 days is the new norm...we would all be waiting 20 years :-) Be sad, but look forward to the child waiting for you at the end. All of us are on this journey, one step at a time, each day is one day closer to our children!