[traceyk]

Since Drihan is only in the 3% for weight die to being a preemie and having food allergies, we let her graze all day as she wants to. She has never over eaten. She will have a rice cake or a small snack size box of raisins and will be fine. Then in a hour she might want grapes or a kiwi. I would try letting him graze and see what he does. Also, does he still take a bottle? You could try getting a supplemental nursing system or lactaid and breast feed him. That will help with the bonding and there are a LOT of women who have done this with even older babies (3 and 4 years old) and have had success. Have you also tried co-sleeping? I attribute a lot of our bonding due to the breastfeeding and co-sleeping as well as her being a newborn when she came into our lives. We still co-sleep.