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As an adoptive parent I can also relate to what your parents are going through. My daughter is only 16 months right now, but I can understand how your aparents feel. I am not sure what their circumstance was that lead them to adoption, but for many it was infertility and/or multiple miscarriages. A lot of times this leaves woulds and fear of loss. They may be afraid of losing you (even though you have assured them). In reading your post I also get the sense that there may be some kind of other info about your bmom that they don't want to share or are nervous about. They may be afraid of her hurting you emotionally and are trying to protect you. I think it will take time. If there is anything that your aparents have not revealed with regard to your bmom they may need time to develop a sense of trust in her as well. Hope this helps.
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