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HBV,
I kind of agree with you here.
I too felt, from the OP's post, that perhaps there is something more to this adoption than they know about causing this behavior in the adoptive parents.
As another person replied to on this post, I am also in this same light...
My kids' birth mother has made some pretty poor choices for them (we too are in an adoption through the state), and I have mixed feelings toward her as well.
So, from my own "gut" as well as what the OP said...WITHOUT knowing their WHOLE situation, I just feel that there's "more" and that perhaps they feel this behavior is either protecting THEM or the OP.
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 Kristi
PROUD forever Moma to daughter K, age 13 and son K, age 12
Moved in on 08/15/2006
Finalized on 04/09/2007, 2:30 p.m.
Foster to Adopt, through DHS in Oklahoma
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