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Although it's hard for you to be in the middle, I very much understand your parents reaction. I'm not sure under what circumstances you were adopted, but in my case my son was not treated well in the home with his biological mother and was removed by the state. As a result, I have very mixed feelings about her and would have a hard time trusting that she would look out for the emotional best interests of my child in the case of a reunion. As parents, it's our job to protect our children from all that might hurt them. It's really hard to turn that off even when you know it's what you should do. I liked the above idea of writing a letter. I think it's a great way to get your feelings out there. Then I'd follow up with a "family conference," and talk with them face to face. Obviously, you are very loved and should feel lucky. I think it will just take some time for your parents to get used to the idea.
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