[LilyMoon]

We also used the Berenstain Bears book as well as one about Winnie the Pooh. I felt the books helped in addition to our discussions as it was another source other than me.

We had issues with my dd going to others, too, when she first came home. I took a very hard line about touching or talking to people we don't know or even people I knew but my dd didn't. This was a rough boundary as we could give a friendly kiss to someone we hadn't seen in a while who was a stranger to her. It really made me think about our social boundaries. As Pinkie mentioned, we also had incidents where adults would be too familiar with our dd in a way that made me very uncomfrotable and upped the ante for me to really drive this message home. It took a while, but dd got the message and would never consider talking to strangers or getting involved with anyone without my approval.