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We did not have any of those options, but I chose my daughter in Russia, so I guess I could have looked at that, and I did notice one child I did not choose had eyes the color of my son. However, my daughter had dark eyes, no one in my family does, and she was bald as could be. However, now I get comments all the time on how much she looks like me. Her hair grew out the exact color of mine. No one notices she has brown eyes and mine are green, they just comment on how much she looks like me. We both have blond hair and fair skin, dh has fair skin and red hair like my oldest bio son, however my other bio son has very dark hair and my green eyes only a little darker! People always assumed he was the adopted one! My new son has Roma blood so he doens't look like us, but it really has not been an issue at all.
I have my own opinions on why adoptive kids so often resemble adoptive parents, but since this is not the religion board I will keep it to myself!
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