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I don't know what to do
i have been given direct contact info w/ my bdaughter. I have been in contact with her daily for the last 7 days. she is 17, and only lives 3 hours a way. we want to meet. her aparents know we are talking, but they haven't said much to her about it. i am elated and feel guilty at the same time. they are great ppl and have raised her well. i don't know what to do, i never wanted the adopt, but it was for the best. her bmom has had almost zero contact, i have written many times and we have exchanged pics. she grew up knowing she was adopted. now we're "together"again. am i wrong in wanting to know my daughter? i don't want to interfere, but as i said, she is 17, and all me, poor girl. she wants to know who she is. how do i ask the aparents? hey, thanks for raising her, your great, now i want to meet her. i'm lost and hurting bad, all over again. i need some advice. thank you.
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